I like it. :(
I like it how, at first, you understand why Ross did the list and you are happy that the list of Julie says "She's not Rachel". But then when Rachel see the list, you feel bad for her and again, you understand why it was such a bad thing.
And I do love the whole thing that actually makes them be together: that prom tape. It was the first time Rachel saw how much Ross cared for her, so all that "list thing" became completely forgetable.